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  • The Bear Facts

    My daugher-in-law asked me sometime ago to make a dust ruffle for our new grandson Jacob’s crib and a bear out of fabric that matches a quilt that she made before he was born. I hurt my upper back over the summer and have not been able to sit at the sewing machine, but my back has improved, so over the weekend I made the dust ruffle and yesterday I produced this fellow (The bear, not the kid. My son and daughter-in-law produced the kid.):

    I had an assistant on this project, our cat, Tigger. He is the yellow one in the picture in my profile. Both cats enjoy watching me sew and will spread themselves out over fabric as I am cutting out, or sit on the sewing table and watch the sewing machine needle as I assemble. Needle watching makes me nervous, because I am always afraid they will try to grab it and I will sew through a paw. So far, luckily, that has not happened.

    Tigger is more than a spectator, though. He likes to take an active part in whatever Dan and I do. When Dan plants the garden, Tigger has been known to move down the rows with him. When Dan digs a hole, Tigger digs a hole. When Dan plants a seed, Tigger wishes he had a seed. When Dan covers his seed, Tigger covers his empty hole. He will spend a lot of time with Dan in the garden.

    Likewise, he is my constant companion when I sew. He has learned to “help” me, too. As I pin pattern pieces to the fabric, he comes along and pulls out the pins! Then I have to stop, fish the pins out of his mouth, and try to explain to him that cats have no use for straight pins and that removing pins from the pattern pieces is not helping! Ever try to explain anything to a cat? Then you know that every time I turn around, he is right back there pulling out pins! It takes me a long time to get anything done!

    I did finally get the bear cut out, however, and was able to put it together while Tigger rooted amongst the scraps and stuck his head into bags containing supplies. Both Tigger and I felt a sense of accomplishment as we gazed at the end product of our labors.
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    At least I am glad Tigger does not do this:

    That little guy looks pretty seriously miffed, doesn’t he?

  • Today we commemorate sadness and horror. Many people’s lives changed forever because of the events of 2 years ago this morning. It’s hard to remember, but we can’t forget. In many ways 9-11 is this generation’s Pearl Harbor.

  • BLB has a lovely blog about a lady with a very optimistic outlook on life. Go check it out and don’t forget to say hi!

    Here’s another interview, this time from sandinmyshoes. Let me know if you would like to be interviewed.

    Rules of Game:
    1 — Leave a comment, saying you want to be interviewed.
    2 — I will respond; I’ll ask you five questions.
    3 — You’ll update your journal with my five questions, and your five answers.
    4 — You’ll include this explanation.
    5 — You’ll ask other people five questions when they want to be interviewed

    Questions:
    1. What article of clothing that you own best describes you?
    Probably a T-shirt, because I am kind of a casual person. I wear T-shirts a lot because they look nice without ironing. I even have some very nice silk ones I wear when I dress up.

    2. What is your favorite fable and why?
    Cinderella because I believe that life can always get better and there is a prince out there for everyone.

    3. What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up this morning? If you can’t remember then try using tomorrow morning. (Extra credit if
    you describe what you were thinking before you went to sleep).

    Go away cat! You get fed at night now! (We used to feed our cats when we got up in the morning, but we switched them to evening because they thought we should get up at 6:30 on our days off! They forget sometimes and wake us up anyway.)
    Last night – “I wonder if I can stay awake to the end of this show.” And that would be a no.

    4. What do you like most when you look in the mirror?
    My eyes. I have rather large eyes and long eyelashes. My eyes remind me of my mother. Sometimes I think they are hers when I see them in the mirror.

    5. Which season do you love most and why?
    That’s tough, because I tend to enjoy whatever season it is. I do not like extremely hot weather and in recent years I do not like all the hours of darkness in winter, but all seasons are beautiful in their own way. I don’t think I would like to live in a place that did not have all 4 seasons. At this time I have no plans to become a snowbird.
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    School started this week. I have a sub day scheduled for next Friday, but so far no early morning calls to get up and go. I am sad to see summer end because it has been such a great one this year. We have done a lot of traveling, seen a lot of friends, and, of course, we welcomed baby Jacob to the family. I am looking forward to subbing this year. I enjoy the school and the kids.

    My Adult Basic Ed classes will get back into full swing week after next. GED seems to be the word of the day. One in every 11 diplomas in Minnesota is a GED. It’s a real privilege to help people get them.

    One of my ESL students called me at home last night to find out when classes begin for her. It’s good to know that she is looking forward to them. It’s also good to hear from her because she will call the students who have difficulty with English on the the phone for me, so I know they will understand times and dates.

    I think even the cats are looking forward to getting back to routine. I was gone from early Thursday morning to Sunday afternoon last week, and they have been following me around ever since as if to keep me from wandering off again. Dan was here, but they seem to feel that I should have been here too.

    I need to plan a fall party. I have been meaning to have a murder mystery dinner for over a year. I just need to invite folks and get the ball rolling. I have procrastinated too long. Time does get away!

    Life is getting back to normal after a busy summer!

  • Bermuda – Chapter 3

    Bermuda is a long thin island – about 21 miles long and in some places so narrow that when you are riding the bus, you can see the ocean on either side of the road, offering vistas like this one:


    It’s an extremely clean place. There is little or no litter and buildings are kept spotless inside and out. There is minimal peeling paint on homes and yards and gardens are neatly maintained. Many gardens have circular stone entrances called moongates. Making a wish as you pass through is supposed to bring you luck. I hope kissing does the same. This is my husband and me at a moongate:


    This particular moongate was in the garden at the island’s perfume factory. There we saw this beautiful flamboyant tree – it’s the one with the orange flowers.


    We also met this little fellow, a member of one of the few species native to the island.


    Bermuda is known for its many wonderful restaurants, so NCL has established a Dine Ashore Program. Passengers can buy a lunch voucher for $5.00 or a dinner voucher for $10.00 and use them in participating restaurants to purchase meals up to $25.00 or $50.00 respectively, so Wednesday evening we had a wonderful meal at Landfall, a very beautiful restaurant in a picturesque setting. I highly recommend taking advantage of this program if you cruise Bermuda on NCL!

    We learned that there is a bike trail constructed on an abandoned rail bed. We love to bike and are fond of what we thought were similar trails in the US, so we rented bikes and set out on the trail on Thursday morning.


    At first the trail was lovely, as you can see. However, we soon discovered that, at intervals of about a city block in length, barriers had been constructed to prevent mopeds from entering the trail. This meant that it was constantly necessary to stop, get off the bikes, and lift them over the barriers. There were also two places where railway bridges had been removed, leaving a steep ditch. There were stairs going down into the ditch and back up the other side. Beside the stairs, there was a path about a foot wide where a coordinated person could ride a bike, providing they liked to pedal up steep inclines. I am not coordinated and I do not like inclines, so I carried my bike down the stairs and back up. Of all the things we did in Bermuda, biking is the one thing I suggest that visitors do not do. Bermudans have some things to learn about bike trails!

    While we were out biking, the ship moved to King’s Wharf, the third port on the island. Here it is docked there. If you like multi-deck atriums with glittering curved staircases and possibly a grand piano at the base, then this is not the ship for you. If you like a very clean ship with a friendly helpful crew and some of the best food you can get at sea, then call your travel agent immediately and book the Norwegian Sea. She looks beautiful in this pic, doesn’t she?


    Thursday afternoon, we went to the beach again, this time to Horseshoe Bay, a very popular spot. It’s a long beach, though, and it is possible to walk along until you fiind a secluded spot like this one. That’s Sheila walking in the water. Notice the pink color the coral gives the sand. At this beach we saw long tailed birds, another species that is semi-native to the island, although they do not live there year round. These beautiful birds are white, but as they swoop low over the water, their undersides reflect the gorgeous tourquiose of the water – a very beautiful sight!


    Thursday evening and Friday morning, we explored King’s Wharf. This port is very different from the other two because there is no real town there. It is a historic wharf area where some of the old buildings have been converted to a lovely mall with a nice restaurant. Other buildings house a glass blower and a potter as well as a craft market . The whole place is beautifully landscaped with palm trees and tropical flowers. Many yachts anchor in the harbor. The shipping history of the island has been preserved on plaques distributed through the area, making it an interesting place to explore.

    Friday afternoon, we sadly set sail for New York. Leaving was the only bad part of the trip! Bermuda is a beautiful place with lots to see and do. We hope to return someday!

  • Bermuda Cont.

    Bermuda is a small island, but there is a lot packed into that small space. It has a very rich history, so there are many museums, forts, and other sites to visit. Because it is prosperous, there is good shopping; not the junky souvenir shops you see everywhere, but shops filled with high quality merchandise, much of it made on the island. There are also thriving downtown areas where locals or long term visitors do business and shop for necessities.

    There are no rental cars on Bermuda. Each household is restricted to one vehicle. Because the island is small and densely populated, any more would cause gridlock. Tourists and locals get around with buses, taxis, and mopeds, all of which are easily accessible. We bought a 3 day bus pass for $23 which gave us unlimited use of the bus system and we also used taxis occasionally. Both were very convenient.

    In St. George’s, after we visited the church I mentioned in my last blog, we browsed some of the shops, stopped in at a musuem and watched a very interesting video on the history of the island, then boarded a bus to Fort St. Catherine.

    The fort was part of the early defense system on the island. Originally, Bermuda belonged to Spain, but they never colonized it because of the coral reefs surrounding the island which make it treacherous for ships. The British were bolder and sent settlers who built the first communities. Spain sent ships to investigate and drive off these trespassers. The governor of the island fired twice on the Spanish ships from Fort St. Catherine, and the Spanish captain, knowing the might of the British military, decided to abandon the effort and go home, leaving Bermuda to become part of the British Empire. What he did not know was that the Governor of Bermuda had fired the only 2 cannon balls on the island and that it was now defenseless!

    After we toured the Fort, we had lunch at Blackbeard’s, a restaurant nearby. Here is a view of the Fort from the restaurant terrace.


    The food was wonderful and we also had this magnificent view of Tobacco Bay.


    As you can see, this beach was nearly deserted. Our plan had been to swim after lunch, so we changed in the restaurant restrooms and headed down there after we ate. The rock formations created a series of interesting and secluded pools to explore and we had a wonderful afternoon at the beach!

    There is little native wildlife on Bermuda, but citizens have imported various species, so as we waited for the bus back to the ship, this little family shared the bus stop with us. They give a whole new meaning to the term “free range.” They did not seem to mind us as companions at all.


    There are 3 cruise ship ports on Bermuda. The Norwegian Sea visits all of them, which isn’t strictly necessary, since the island is small enough to get around and see the sites from any port, but it is very convenient because you can reduce time spent waiting for buses by fanning out from each port to explore. On Wednesday morning, we moved to Hamilton, the capital city. I was very impressed with the downtown area.


    We did a little shopping and then headed out ti sightsee. Here are some typical views we enjoyed while waiting for buses.



    This particular bus stop was near this lighthouse.


    We had a bit of moisture on the camera lens, so unfortunately there is a blurry spot in the middle of the picture, but I still like the photo.

    Dan, Ross and Sheila climbed to the top of the lighthouse, so they got to see this:


    You can see how heavily developed this island is. There is very little open space.

    I do not like heights, so I stayed below, and, since it was very hot, I enjoyed some delicious iced tea at the restaurant connected to the lighthouse. The food they were serving looked wonderful – quite imaginative – and I read an interesting table brochure that said that the owner/cook was the grand daughter of the last lighthouse keeper.

    More to come…

  • Cruisin’ Bermuda

    On August 10, we flew to LaGuardia, grabbed a taxi, and headed for the docks to board the Norwegian Sea for its sailing to Bermuda. We did not spend any time in New York on this trip, but we were treated to a lovely view of the humidity hazed skyline from the harbor.


    It’s always thrilling to see this lady as you pass.


    Immediately after our 4:00 pm sailing, we participated in the compulsory muster drill. For those of you who don’t know, that’s when they make all the passengers put on their life jackets, go out on the deck, and pretend the ship is sinking. It often surprises first time cruisers to discover that the cruise director and his/her staff, the photographers, and the entertainers are the ones responsible for rescuing the passengers in case of emergency, so you are likely to be met by a dancer giving instructions in a very businesslike manner at the muster drill. There are actually good reasons for this choice in rescuers. Cruise ship crews almost always come from other countries and many of them have limited English skills, so they would not be effective in communicating with anxious passengers in an emergency situation. They are also responsible for keeping the ship afloat as long as possible so the passengers have plenty of time to get off – a good plan in my estimation!

    After the drill, we unpacked and settled into our cabin. One of the nicest things about cruising is that you do unpack your luggage and put your belongings into closets and drawers – so much better than living out of a suitcase! Cruise ship cabins are incredibly small and the ones on this ship are smaller than most. They are very efficient, however, so it does not take long to feel comfortable in the small space. With everything put away and luggage stowed under the beds, the space becomes quite cozy.

    Next on our agenda was chow.  This was actually our second meal aboard because we hit the buffet line right after we boarded.  They were carving some lovely prime rib as well as serving a variety of other treats, but that was 4 hours earlier, so we were ready for food again.  This time we chose LeBistro, one of NCL’s alternative dining choices.  There is a cover charge for this intimate dining area.  When we were on NCL’s Majesty a little over a year ago, we decided to forgo LeBistro because it had no ocean view, opening right onto the busy corridor outside one of the main dining rooms with no barrier to offer protection from onlookers – hardly worth paying extra.  We have been on the Sea before, though, and we knew that on this ship LeBistro is very private with lovely views of the ocean, so we booked a table for an early seating and were not disappointed as we enjoyed a marvelous meal at a table by a picture window.

    Monday, a day at sea, was our first full day aboard the ship.  First days at sea are very nice.  It’s an opportunity to rest up from traveling, explore the ship, participate in activities, browse the shops, try your luck at the casino (the shops and casino must close when a ship is in port), or sit on deck with a book. I have been on ships which did not offer this first day at sea and I have learned to avoid such itineraries if possible. I enjoy my ports so much more if I am relaxed when I reach them.

    Tuesday morning, we awoke to this view of St. George’s, our first port in Bermuda.


    Bermudans consider themselves to be part of the Caribbean, but if you have spent much time in the Caribbean, you know that most islands do not look like this. Bermuda is much more densely populated and the homes are more substantially built, giving the island a much more prosperous look than its Caribbean neighbors to the south. Part of this is probably because being almost 1000 miles north of most Caribbean islands, there is more temperature variation over the course of the year, making a different type of housing necessary, and part of it is probably because I suspect Bermuda really is more prosperous than the typical Caribbean island. In any case, this is representative housing for this island.

    Near the harbor in the heart of St. George’s stands this church, which is the oldest Anglican church still in use in the western hemisphere.


    It is very simple by today’s standards, but quite lovely and very inspirational. We talked to a woman from the church who told us that many people from all over the world come to be married there.

    The communion service, shown on the top shelf in this picture. was given to the church by King William of England about 200 years ago (Bermuda is still part of the British Empire).


    The items on the second shelf were gifts of Charles and Diana when they visited Bermuda on their honeymoon, and those on the bottom shelf were used in the coronation of Elizabeth II.

    Outside the church is a cemetery with graves so old that the stones are no longer readable. The people in the picture are our traveling companions, Ross and Sheila.


    It’s been unusually hot and dry in Bermuda this summer, so you can see that the grass in the cemetery is dead. The lack of rain has not reached critical proportions yet, but it is close to it. The island has no source of fresh water, so inhabitants depend heavily on collecting rain water. You may have noticed the unusual roofs which facilitate rainwater collection from homes and other buildings. They also use imported water and desalinated sea water.

    More on Bermuda and cruising to come …

    I am heading out early in the morning and will not be home until Sunday. I will be back around to visit and to tell you more about Bermuda then.

  • I’m back. I’m totally whipped, but I’m back. It has been a great 2 weeks. I will tell you all about it over the next several days.

    MelsWorld left me these interview questions before my trips. I am going to answer those today as my first step toward catching up with Xanga. I will also write interview questions for those who have asked me to interview them.

    Rules:
     1 — Leave a comment, saying you want to be interviewed.
    2 — I will respond; I’ll ask you five questions.
    3 — You’ll update your journal with my five questions, and your five answers.
    4 — You’ll include this explanation.
    5 — You’ll ask other people five questions when they want to be interviewed.


    1 – Who would you cast as yourself in your own movie?
    Sally Field. She is really nothing at all like me, but when I was a teenager and she was playing Gidget on TV, Gidget was the person I always wanted to be and never was. Maybe if Sally Field played me in my movie, I could finally be Gidget.

    2 – Are you completely honest in situations where your name isn’t used?
    I am almost always completely honest. I am able to withhold information if nobody asks for it, but whatever I say is always what I believe to be the truth. I am much too direct for many people and often too much so for my own good.

    3 – What is your proudest moment?
    That is a hard one! It depends on what you mean by proud. Marrying my husband or the birth of my kids would be right up there. Holding each of my grandchildren for the first time.

    Professionally, I would have to say winning the Gerrie Driessen Award for Excellence in Health Occupations Education. I was the second person ever to receive it.

    4 – What song (s) best describes you?
    Today, Sleepy Time Gal.

    5 – Would you ever run for political office?
    Good heavens, no! I think you have to be interested in politics to do that. I have held offices in organizations, though. I like to do that because it puts you in a decision making position. I very much like to be in control of my own fate, so I need to be where the decisions are made.

  • We are headed for Minneapolis to spend the night, then tomorrow morning we fly to New York City to board a ship destined for Bermuda. We will be gone for a week, and the morning after we get back, I am heading for a professional conference for another week, so I will be absent from Xanga for 2 weeks. Everybody behave while I am gone!

    When I come back, I will interview spwebdesign, englishjuls, andromediva, and anyone else who has requested that I interview them. I will also answer the interview questions that MelsWorld posted under my last blog and any other interview questions that have been left for me.

    I will probably also have tales and pictures of Bermuda!

  • Many of you have probably seen the interviews that are popping up all over Xanga. craktpot was kind enough to ask me the following interview questions.

    If anyone else would like to interview me, feel free. If you would like me to interview you, please ask me in the comment section of this blog. Bear in mind that I am going to be gone for 2 weeks, so it will be awhile before I will be able to do it.

    The interview rules, craktpot’s questions, and my replies follow.

    Rules:

     1 — Leave a comment, saying you want to be interviewed.
    2 — I will respond; I’ll ask you five questions.
    3 — You’ll update your journal with my five questions, and your five answers.
    4 — You’ll include this explanation.
    5 — You’ll ask other people five questions when they want to be interviewed.

    Questions:

    1. If you could live anywhere with anyone, where would you live and with whom?

    Actually, I am very happy living where I live and being with my husband. I would not mind ensuring that I will be the one to go first. I do not want to be without him. I like the small town we live in, but there are things about living in the city that I miss. It would be great to be back there at least some of the time.

    We have talked about renting a house in England for a few months. It would be great if we could do that sometime.

    2. What is the one thing you wish you had that money cannot buy?

    That is a very tough question. In general, I am very satisfied with my life and it is difficult for me to come up with something that I want and do not have. There are questions that I would have liked to have asked my mom while she was living. It would be nice to have an opportunity to do that.

    As you know if you have been reading my blog, I had a friendship that died a slow and painful death. I wish that could have turned out differently, but there was nothing I could do about it. For me to change the situation would have required that I accept that person’s right to exert control over me and I could not do that.

    3. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

    I could definintely use more patience. It has never been one of my virtues and it makes me very sad sometimes when I see how impatient I can get with people.

    Physically, of course it would be great to be a statuesque blonde.

    4. What do you like to do in your free time?

    I love to read, to cook, to bake, and to sew. I love to go to lunch with friends and just sit and talk. My husband and I like to ride bicycles – we have not been able to do much of that this summer. We like to spend time with our children and grandchildren. In larger hunks of free time, we like to travel. I spend quite a bit of time here on Xanga. In fact, I have to set limits on that. And then, of course, there is my concert habit.

    5. Who/what do you love most of all?

    A very easy question! My husband and my family.

  • I made it through my SIR list!! The whole thing!! I am proud of myself!! I am caught up! Or I was. I am sure I am not now, because I am sure everyone wrote another blog as soon as I departed their sites, but what the hey? For one brief, shining moment, I was caught up!

    I had not intended to blog about my back except to mention it briefly in my last post, but that seems to be what everyone picked up on, so I will tell you a little more about it. I have had a chronic back problem for more than 25 years. I have at least 1 and probably more than 1 degenerated lumbar disc. It has been very bad at times. In fact, I actually went to the zoo in a wheelchair once. Thankfully, it has been good for the last few years though. It has probably been at least 10 years since I have had to see a physician for it. I am pretty virtuous about doing exercises (nobody is totally virtuous, right?) and not so virtuous about controlling my weight, and I get along fine. At least until the last couple of weeks.

    Recently I have developed a rather nasty upper back ailment – either very low cervical or very high thoracic – which has left the muscles in my upper back throbbing, my arm numb, and my neck feeling like it is crumbling when I turn my head. Not pleasant. I am pretty sure I have a pinched nerve and who knows what else. Anyway, this is a very inopportune time because we are leaving for vacation on Sunday. When I get home, I am leaving the next day for a 4 day professional conference, and the day I get home from that I have to drive to Canada to a concert. I cannot be laid up with an injured back right now. Nope. No time for that at all.

    thelastdon51pa kindly asked why I am not getting treatment for my back. That’s a really good question for which I do not have a really good answer. I am one of those annoying medical people who thinks everyone else should get regular health care but prefers to tough things out myself if at all possible. This time I decided it was not possible though, so this afternoon I broke down and went to the chiropractor.

    I am not usually a chiropractor kind of a person. I have no objection to them. It is just a kind of health care that I do not usually use. I did visit one many years ago when my lower back problems started and it was not helpful. I finally found an MD who did wonders for me. He had been a chiropractor before he was an MD, and he told me that the type of lower back problem I have should never be manipulated, so I have pretty much lived by that rule. Because he had been a chiropractor, he had no objection to chiropractics and was open to many other types of natural treatement, which is one thing I really liked about him. In fact, the most helpful treatment I had back then was acupuncture, and this MD referred me for it. He moved out of the area several years ago and I miss him, especially when my back hurts.

    In thinking back about this doctor, I remembered a time many years ago when I happened to be in for a pap smear and mentioned that I was having some upper back pain. He took one look at my back, told me that I had a rib and a vertebra that were out of place, did a quick little twisty thing, and voila! No more back pain. I realized that he had been using his chiropractic skills, so yesterday I decided to call up the local DC and give him a crack at my current back problem. (I know – bad pun.)

    I really liked this DC. He is very different from the one I saw years ago. He listened to my symptoms, seemed to have respect for my nursing background, and agreed with my self-assessment of the problem. (I always feel that a doctor that agrees with my diagnosis is a pretty smart one.) He agreed to work only on my upper back and neck. He also did things that were similar to physical therapy techniques that have helped my back in the past. Tonight I am sore, but I am feeling pretty optimistic that I have found a solution to my problem.
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    In other news, our yellow cat (see the picture in my profile) appears to have committed some sort of mayhem. My husband reported seeing him walking through the yard a couple of days ago carrying an animal in his mouth. We did not find any signs of this animal anywhere, so we assumed it escaped. The cat is not a mighty hunter after all. Then yesterday my husband noticed a blood spot up at the corner of the garage door. He could not figure out where it came from until he remembered that Tigger likes to climb onto my car, then jump up onto the open garage door. Since that puts him on what is the outside of the door when it is lowered, Dan figures that the animal met its demise up there.
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    Go check out englishjuls blog today. It’s a very thoughtful and interesting commentary on historic events she would like to have witnessed.
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    Some of you might be interested in reading TheJohn‘s blog on Xanga conduct rules. I suspect many of you will not agree with him. I thought he made some valid points. I do not really know what has been happening or what the stalking issues mentioned in some of the blogs I read are. One thing I do know is that putting yourself out on the internet is not always safe.

    The John mentions that we use pen names which give us anonymity, which is true to an extent. However, if you know how to do it, it is not difficult to trace someone on the internet. I do not have those skills myself, but I know people who have been traced. Posting on the internet makes it possible for people to find out anything they want to know about you, including your real name, your address and phone number, and directions to your home. To some extent, I think it is wise to be concerned if someone is leaving inappropriate comments on your site, especially if they are doing it regularly. I think it is always wise to be cautious about internet contacts.