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  • Sink the Sub!

    We’ve got a sub today!
    Hip, hip, hooray!
    It’s playtime for us
    If not, we will cuss!

    A sub, you know,
    As teachers go,
    Is a very dumb beast
    A dim bulb at least!

    We’ll confuse her
    And use her
    And make her life hard
    She’ll be gone in a day
    No penalty to pay!

    Just what can we do?
    Make trips to the loo.
    And never return,
    This classroom we’ll spurn!

    For she’s just a sub,
    What can she do?
    She doesn’t give grades,
    She can’t even sue!

    We’ll confuse her
    And use her
    And make her life hard
    She’ll be gone in a day
    No penalty to pay!

    We’ve got a sub today!
    Hip, hip, hooray!
    It’s playtime for us
    We’ll raise a big fuss!


    This is how I have been spending my days this month!  Actually, I like to sub.  For most of the month, I have been subbing in junior high health, which is my area and I could actually teach.  Today, I am in history and it is playtime for me!


  • Sometimes the absurdities of life really amaze me. Over the weekend, I recieved not one, but two unexpected checks in the mail as a result of a lawsuit against a bank with whom I used to have a credit card. Although I no longer have this account, apparently the legal action required that I receive the money. One check was for 13 cents and the other was for 19 cents. The checks were mailed separately. That’s right, this bank spent $.74 postage plus the cost of cutting the checks to send me $.32!!
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    I am having a busy couple of weeks, so I may not be blogging much. I have been subbing since last Thursday for a teacher whose mom died. I teach adult classes on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. Tonight, I wrap gifts for Santa Anonymous after school. Wednesday, I am helping with the choir party at church. Friday, I have a breakfast meeting to plan the next session of the class for unemployed people that I will be teaching in January and February. Then I will be doing prep for that class for the rest of the day. I hope I will be blogging at some point during all that, but I can’t be sure.

  • I wrote my Christmas letter on Tuesday – yes – one of those annoying computer letters that many people hate to get. I vowed that I would never do that, and, for many years, I wrote pages and pages of hand written letters in my Christmas cards. The problem is that I am not a very good correspondent, so, in many cases, the Christmas letter was the only time friends heard from me. That meant that there was a lot to tell, and I had to write it many times. The letters started out newsy and interesting, but, after 20 or so, my writing got a little stale, and I had the feeling that the recipients could see that too. I finally decided that to keep my letters lively and interesting, I should really write just one, and then I could add any personal comments by hand at the end. For those who hold themselves above reading such epistles, I figure that I provide them with a nice piece of paper to use to start the fireplace.

    As I was writing, I realized that one of the over-riding themes in my life the past year, really the past 2 years, has been friendship. I have had to do a lot of thinking about what friendship really is and what it means to me. I am very fortunate to have many long term friends who have been very patient with me as I have stumbled through some unchated territory the past several years, and I am so glad that they are still there. Renewing those relationships has become a real priority in my life. It inspired the following poem:

    Are You My Friend?

    Are you my friend?
    How can I know?
    Will you be there
    When I need you so?

    Will you listen to me
    When life is hard?
    Will you laugh with me
    When I play the card?

    Can I cry a few tears
    When life makes me blue?
    Will you be there
    When I really need you?

    Will you accept me
    When my life is different?
    And understand
    When I may seem errant?

    Will you talk to me
    When things go awry?
    Or will you run away
    And leave me alone to cry?

    If you’re my friend
    I can count on you
    And know you’ll be there
    When I really need you!

    In my opinion, Bing Crosby’s Do You Hear What I Hear? is the last really great Christmas song.


  • Last Saturday (Nov. 23) I had lunch with some friends from college.  We have known each other since 1966 – YIKES!! – and recently we have started trying to meet for lunch every two months so we can catch up on each others’ lives and solve the problems of the world.  In the picture above, that’s Millie, Joanie, Cathy, and me.  This picture is actually from our September lunch, when it was warm enough to eat out on the deck – a very nice place indeed since this restaurant is on the shores of Lake Minnetonka.  Joanie was not able to join us this time, but Cathy, Millie, and I managed to keep the conversation going until the waiter came and asked us to pay our check please because the restaurant was closed!

    Sunday (Nov. 24), Dan and I took Madison to the University of Minnesota Indoor Marching Band Concert.  We took her (actually, we took the whole family) a couple of years ago, and she remembered it and asked if she could go again this year, so Betsy called and asked if we would like to take her.  Of course we said yes.

    If you have never heard a huge marching band heavy on the brass and percussion play inside an auditorium, then you may have difficutly envisioning the experience of this concert. The band has 260 members who march in playing their cadence accompanied by a flag unit, a baton twirler, and a white uniformed high stepping drum major. Once inside the theater, the drum major and twirler assume center stage while the band, still filling all the aisles, plays the Minnetsota Rouser and the flags perform. I have witnessed this many times over the years and it always brings tears to my eyes. It’s an amazing experience to be surrounded by the music! After the Rouser, the band moves to the stage, shouting Rah! Rah! Rah! for Ski-U-Mah as they march. The U of M band rarely marches silently. If they are not playing, they are yelling, twirling their instruments, and swinging vigorously from side to side. Even the tubas are held high and swung in time to the cadence.

    The Minnesota Gopher, mascot of the U of M athletic teams, accompanies the band, as does their announcer. This year, the Blues Brothers, Superman, Wonderwoman, and Batman made guest appearances. Between the baton twirler, who really was very accomplished, the flag unit, the super heros, and the blues musicians, the concert had appeal for all ages. Our five year old grand daughter sat poised on the edge of her seat for the entire two and a half hours.

    Madison was impressed with the baton twirler and her glittering costumes. You rarely see a really good twirler anymore. It seems to be one of those “girl” things that is out of favor right now. This one was certainly one of the best I have seen. Madison’s eyes got big and I could see that she was picturing herself up on the stage performing the routine. Children’s imaginations are a wonderful thing!

    We noticed some changes in the concert this year. Rod Persons, the Voice of the U of M Marching Band for as long as I can remember, is no longer with them. Tom de Ranitz, his replacement, did a fine job though, and I am sure someday people will look back fondly on his time with the band just as I look back at Rod Persons. The National Anthem was sung by Jim Mitchell this year. He was one of the great past drum majors but is now in a wheelchair due to bilateral amputations. He was amazing to watch when he marched. He leaned back so far that the plume on his hat brushed the floor/ground. The past few drum majors have not done that, although they are certainly impressive in their own ways. The experience I missed most came, or rather did not come, at the end of the concert though. In the past, the band always marched out into the aisles again, stood, and played the Battle Hymn of the Republic. This year they marched out but only played their cadence. While that is impressive – it takes 20 minutes or so to play the whole cadence routine – I secretly longed for the Battle Hymn to resonate through the auditorium.

    When our kids were growing up, this concert was an annual event for our family. It was so eagerly anticipated that one year our son asked me to make him a Gopher suit for Halloween. It was a beloved costume and he wore it constantly until it finally wore out!

    Our daughter was surprised that Madison did not get restless, but the concert really was wonderfully staged to keep the attention of all ages. Afterwards, we met our daughter, son-in-law, grandson Ryan, and our son, daughter-in-law and grandson Jake at a restaurant to celebrate our daughter-in-law’s birthday. Then we went to Southdale’s Magical Evening of Giving. It was a very full day!
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    Our daughter-in-law sent us this picture taken by Jake’s daycare provider on a trip to the Zoo. Jake looks a little concerned about that shark hovering above him.


    I started this blog almost a week ago. My Xanga time has been very limited lately because I have been busy. It has been a good busy, though, and now I am going to try to get around and make visits so I can catch up with everyone.

  • We have a small variety or department store in our town.  I don’t shop there very much because they don’t carry the clothing brands I like, but it is a very nice business to have in town because our population has a large percentage of elderly people who can’t easily drive out of town to shop. This store carries clothing, a small selection of household items, a few toys, fabrics and notions, some craft supplies, greeting cards, stationery, and wrapping paper.  They also have a candy counter, which is usually what brings me in there.

    I stopped in a few days ago to purchase a box of thank you cards.  I had to wait a few minutes to pay for them because an elderly gentleman was engaged in a 3 way conversation with the clerk and another shopper.  I don’t recall what they were talking about, but after the two men moved on, the clerk and I chatted for a minute about how nice it was for that man to have run into someone on his daily errands.  That led to an exchange about how people in our community have to come up to the Post Office every day to get their mail.

    When we first moved to this town nearly 29 years ago, I was amazed that mail was not delivered to homes!  I could not imagine having to go get it.  The very thought seemed like something from horse and buggy days, not from the twentieth century.  Over the years, I have come to believe that having to go get the mail is a very good thing indeed.  It means just about everyone goes uptown every day.  We have a thriving business area, a rare thing in a town of our size these days.  I think we can thank those daily pilgrimages to fetch the mail.  As long as you’re up there anyway, you might as well check out what’s new in the stores and have a cup of coffee.  After that, you can drop in at the bank.  The really nice thing, though, is that widows and widowers who might otherwise spend their days alone run into people they know and exchange a few words.  That’s what I saw happening when I was waiting to pay for my thank you notes.

    Recently, it was determined that residents can have mail delivered to their homes if they put up a mailbox at the curb. More and more of these boxes are appearing. I can’t help but wonder what that means for folks who count on their daily visit to the Post Office for human contact. I think those chance encounters which may culminate in a cup of coffe or a roll from the bakery coupled with some friendly conversation will be missed by many people. It seems to me that loneliness will be on the rise in our community. Something charming and important is being lost. Progress?? What do you think?

  • Last Friday while I was driving to work, I heard one of the local radio personalities say that it is only seven more weeks until the days start to get longer again. To me, that was a very nice thought. I do not mind winter. In fact, I rather enjoy it. Fresh snow is one of the most beautiful sights you can see. Cold does not particularly bother me. However, as I age, I find that the long hours of darkness during the winter months are difficult, depressing even. Thinking about short winter days reminds me of a time when I experienced even shorter ones.

    A few years ago, we had the pleasure of being in Edinburgh for part of the New Year’s celebration. If you have never been there, you have missed a very beautiful city with lots of interesting things to see and do, and New Year’s is one of the things they do best. The festivities go on for days. One of the nights we were there, they had a torch light parade lead by pipers in full kilt which wound down the hill from the castle, through the heart of the city, and up another hill to a magnificent view and a roaring bonfire. There they burned a Viking ship in effigy. That part was a little disconcerting to us Minnesota folk.

    One of the unique aspects of this parade was that it was not a stand there and watch parade. As it came by, the people along the route jumped in and became part of it. As we joined their ranks, someone handed my son a torch, and we happily proceded along with the crowd. It’s one of my nicest memories of my visit there.

    Another great memory is our visit to Greyfriars Kirkyard where Greyfriars Bobby and his master, Old Jock are buried. I have always loved Bobby’s story and it was exciting for me to see the area where he lived. I even bought a small pewter image of Bobby which now sits on my mantle along with a replica of Edinburgh Castle.

    What I did not like about Edinburgh in the winter was the number of hours of darkness. It is farther north than Minnesota, and it seemed to me that it was not fully light until after 9:00 and it began getting dark between 3:00 and 4:00. I can remember my son calling home from London while he was there and saying, “Mom, I can’t stand it here. It is always dark!” At the time, I thought he was just homesick, but after being in England and Scotland over the Christmas holidays, I have to agree that there is very little daylight in the winter. I would have a hard time with that, too.

    I dream of returning to England and Scotland someday, but in the summer, when I imagine that the days are long. Meantime, I will hold dear the thought that in just seven weeks, I can look forward to lengthening days and until then, I still have more hours of daylight to enjoy than the Brits and the Scots!

  • Today is the anniversary of the sinking of the Edmund Fitzgerald in Lake Superior.  They will light the light at Split Rock Lighthouse and sound the horn once for each man who died.  There will also be a memorial service.  I would like to be there for that remembrance someday.



    Here’s a link to another blog I did that has a bit more information about the sinking of the Edmund Fitzgerald.  http://www.xanga.com/item.aspx?user=Nance1&tab=weblogs&uid=6911656  For those of you not familiar with Lake Superior, it is a very large lake and is very important in shipping iron ore and other products to Europe.  There is an international seaport at Duluth.  The lake is subject to sudden severe storms and there have been many ships lost.  The Edmund Fitzgerald was the most recent.


    Oops! Sorry! My site was private for awhile because of something that was going on in my life, and apparently I did not make this particular blog public again when I made the rest of the site public. I have corrected that now and the link should work. I was wondering why I was getting all those comments that the link did not work when it worked for me.

  • Saturday night, I read a very well written blog speaking out against the legislation that proposes to end partial birth abortions in the United States. It took me 12 hours to decide how I wanted to respond to that blog.

    I am a Roman Catholic and am philosophically and morally opposed to abortion at any stage. I believe, however, that abortion is a religious and moral issue and therefore should be addressed in churches and families, not in the law.

    Many of the early settlers of what is now the United States came here to escape religious persecution. They founded a country based on separation of church and state to guarantee religious freedom for themselves and their descendants. Now it seems that there is a very strong movement in this country to take away that right and allow certain groups of people to tell our citizens how they must think and what they must believe. I find this to be frightening, even dangerous.

    I do not believe that the issue here is really abortion. Rather, the issue is power. Promoting issues that raise strong emotions and bring about division among the citizenry is just a means to achieving that power. The abortion issue is an excellent battering ram for the power seekers because it divides on the basis of religion and also on the basis of sex. It is emotionally charged. All parties believe that they are right, but no group can be proven to be right because the issue involves matters of faith; belief in the soul and ideas about when the soul enters a fetus. Those concepts are not subject to objective proof. Use of such issues is very effective. Similar emotionally charged issues include taking the words “under God” out of the Pledge of Allegiance and the controversy over whether prayer should be allowed in the schools and at public meetings.

    The issue in all the above cases is respect. The question is, in the United States, do we have the right to believe as we choose and to base our actions on that belief, do we accept and respect each person’s right to do that, or do we allow laws to be made which tell us how we must believe? That question is far more encompassing than any single issue.

    The groups leading this movement are not a majority. That is why they have to use issues that divide. The more division they can cause, the more easily they can be elected to positions of power.

    Unfortunately, many people are not very deep thinkers, so when someone throws them an emotionally charged issue, they react from the gut and not from the head. I think it is very important that we who are parents try to equip our children with the best possible thinking skills. It is also important to discuss moral values in our homes and equip our offspring with the tools they need to make their own choices. They need to learn to respect the rights of others to make choices also. That is the only way issues such as this one can ever be resolved. It cannot be done with laws.

    I can remember being in college before 1970 and hearing a presentation on the need for legal abortion. At that time, I was horrified because I was at a Catholic Women’s college and to me it seemed that the school was hosting an attack on my religion, the very religion they were supposed to support! I had a hard time dealing with that. I have come to realize that that was not the case, however. No one has to have an abortion just because it is legal. Respecting differences in religious philosophy does not weaken religion. Instead, it strengthens it. I used to tell my kids that being moral is nothing to be proud of if you have no other choice. If you believe differently than I do, it does not diminish me or threaten me. It is when you do not respect me that that happens.

    So, do we in the United States respect each other and the right of each person to choose for himself/herself, not about one issue, but about all religious and moral issues? That’s the issue and the question.

  • Ode to a Would-Be Poet
    (Or – a Wood-Be Poet)
    (Thanks twoberry!)

    I think that I shall never see
    A poem as lovely as a tree.

    At least not written by the likes of me!
    Verbose I am, as you can see!

    A poem paints its lovely scene
    With words so sparse, though never mean.

    But I must elaborate, vocabulate.
    Please, can’t you commiserate?

    A poem whose picture the artist doth paint
    With graceful words – well, mine just ain’t!

    Sentences I love, and paragraphs,
    With punctuation, just for laughs!

    So prose it is, prose it will be,
    No poem as lovely as a tree.

    Too many verses have I here
    For words I like, I hold them dear.

    Economy of language is not my thing
    Tho’ with poetry I may take a fling!

    This poem was made by a fool, you see,
    And only God can make a tree!

  • Dinner Dilemma

    “What’s for dinner?” he cried,
    As he rushed through the door.
    “Fried cat!” I replied.
    “But we’ve had that before!”
    He bemoaned with a snarl and a snap,
    “Stick mine in the fridge, and I’ll go take a nap!”

    How do you like that?
    I ask if you please,
    He eats like the cat
    I’m servng with peas
    Fresh picked from the garden and gently steamed,
    And carefully garnished with lemony greens.

    I worked like a rat
    At skinning that cat
    I’ve the slashes to show
    From my head to my toe
    For cats, they object, to skinning, you know
    No matter how firmly you keep them in tow!

    Ungrateful he is
    To his lovely Miz
    For cooking the cat
    Instead of a rat
    Next time he’ll see what happens to those
    Who pass on the dinner to favor a doze!

    I’ll boil him a dog
    In a hollowed out log,
    And serve it with roaches
    Not thoroughly poached
    And see if that whets his palate better
    If nae, I’ll haul out the dread fetter!

    Dedicated to Three_Headed_Sarahs and LordPineapple, who are apparently looking for some good cat recipes, and to Wee_Duncan_Douglas just because.

    Disclaimer: No cats, living or otherwise, were harmed in the preparation of this blog.